Dealing with Hate | November Happies


Everybody at some point in their lives deals with hate and it is not a nice feeling. 

I personally, have never had to deal with hate before. I have never had any nasty comments on my blog or Instagram and if people don't like me in real life, they don't tend to say it to my face. 

My advice is, if you get nasty comments on social media, you can always delete and report them, and if they continue, screenshot so you have proof as this can be cyber-bullying. 

In real-life, it is a lot more difficult, if someone comes up to you and say hate to your face it can really knock your self esteem. Most of the time though, people aren't comfortable with themselves and want to take it out on other people. THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT. 

Nobody deserves to get hated on for doing or wearing something they love so don't let people stop you. It is your life and you chose what you can and can't do.

Lots of love
Laura xx

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  1. Thank you for doing this post! When people found out about my blog it knocked my self-esteem down to below normal. I didn't talk to anyone, but people found it acceptable to shout at me in the corridors and class about it all the time. I got over it, and although the comments have never really stopped (although they think I deleted my blog now) but I have lived through it all, and I stood by myself, and it all died down by itself!

    Sorry for the back story, Just got carried away!
    Anyway, if you ever need to talk if you get hate (but you won't because you're lovely!) you can talk to me x
    ~ basicallychloe x
    Don't forget to smile! :) ~ x

    1. Thanks for sharing this and I hope everything is better now, I will talk to you if I ever need to xx

  2. This is such an amazing post, its so truthful and it touches everyones. I loved it a lot.

    Have a lovely weekend xx

  3. Hate is an awful thing to have to deal with in life and I wish it wasn't,this post has definitely helped me to remember to stay positive x

    1. I'm so glad it has helped you be postive! x


Thankyou for commenting, it means so much! Love Laura x